“We do not serve extra food,” my daughter in law Kimberly said while she shoved a glass of plain water toward me. I watched her entire family prepare to eat fresh lobster while my son Justin simply added that I should understand my place in the family.I did not let my anger show and instead offered a small smile while telling them that I had noted their perspective. Kimberly did not even try to be subtle about her behavior while she sat there with a fake expression of kindness.