My son skipped his father’s funeral to stay at his wife’s birthday party, and by the time the coffin touched the bottom of that wet Chicago grave, I knew something inside our family had died long before Richard did.
The rain came down hard that afternoon, beating against the green canopy over the burial site with a steady, unforgiving rhythm.
Beneath it stood hundreds of people who had known my husband in different ways: dockworkers, captains, executives, old friends, competitors who had become allies, and employees who still called him Mr.
Mitchell even after thirty years.
And beside me, where my only son should have been, there was an empty chair.
It was not a mistake.
It was not traffic.