Not many people decide to remarry their ex-spouses, and once they do, there must be something that prompts them they make the right choice this time. For our heroine, Amy, the decision to remarry her ex was natural, because she was still in love with him. But the way the events developed further, left Amy in a big doubt about giving her ex a second chance.
The couple divorced some time ago, but it wasn’t the end.
Amy, 34, wrote a letter to our editorial and told us her story. The woman wasn’t hiding her emotions and by sharing her story, she intended to warn our readers that it’s worth thinking twice if you ever decide to renew your relationship with a person who once let you down.
Amy opened her letter, saying, «I and my husband Dan, 36, had been sweethearts since middle school. We had been dating for over 8 years and then we got married. Our marriage was turbulent, with a lot of fights and even infidelity from Dan’s side, which I only suspected but which, however, was denied by him and was never confirmed by facts. I found some provoking messages from his colleague at a time on his phone and decided that it was time to call it quits. I didn’t listen to his excuses, and I sincerely didn’t want any explanations anymore. My trust in Dan had already been shaken a lot after he demonstrated very infantile behavior during some really hard times we were going through. So, I initiated our divorce and he gave up after several attempts to reason with me.»
The couple met once after the divorce and couldn’t hold their feelings back.
Amy goes on with her story, saying, «So, we divorced 3 years ago and I avoided any contact with Dan for a very long time. I did receive some invitations for a cup of coffee from him, but I ignored every attempt of Dan to get closer again. But around one year ago, we accidentally met in a supermarket. I went to buy some groceries and he was there, too, accompanied by some beautiful lady.»
Amy revealed, «When I saw Dan with another woman, I instantly became extremely jealous. Of course, I remembered that we divorced and that he was a free man from then on. But something inside me just didn’t let him go all this time, and seeing him with another woman was very hurtful and offensive to me.»
Amy wrote that Dan called her that very same day when they met in the supermarket, and she decided to answer his call this time. The woman wrote, «I was surprised by the purpose of Dan’s call. He called to explain that the woman he was accompanied by, was his father’s secretary and that his dad just asked him to bring her home because she hurt her leg badly. Dan added that their visit to that supermarket was the woman’s initiative, she just asked him for a favor and he couldn’t say no.»
The woman added, «I believed Dan, because I saw that the woman was limping, so the whole story sounded legit to me. Dan then suggested meeting for a talk, and this time I agreed.»