He Wanted a 50/50 Split After His Raise — I Said Yes, But Only If…

He Wanted a 50/50 Split After His Raise — I Said Yes, But Only If…

When James’s salary doubled, he shocked me by demanding we split all expenses 50/50. I was working part-time at his insistence to spend more time with our baby, Emily, but I agreed on one condition: we put it in writing.For years, I balanced part-time consulting, housework, and motherhood, while James’s career soared. Then came the night he celebrated a big promotion and immediately insisted we split finances equally, despite my reduced income.

I was taken aback. “I’m stretched thin managing the home and Emily,” I said. He brushed it off, insisting fairness meant equal financial contribution. I agreed but only if we signed a notarized agreement.Months later, James’s new lifestyle showed cracks designer suits, exclusive clubs, and growing distance.

When he excluded me from his networking events, I made a quiet move. Using my own connections, I secured a full-time role, ironically replacing him.James was demoted. I reminded him that the 50/50 agreement was still binding. Our marriage crumbled under his resentment.

When we divorced, that same agreement haunted him one last time.Now, our daughter Emily is growing into a confident young woman, learning that true partnership isn’t just about splitting costs it’s about respect, support, and valuing each other’s contributions.

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